Quotes for Navigating the Real World Publication

Adam Fayhe

"[My worst job] is between two different ones: washing dishes at a local restaurant, which was horrible because everyone treats you like crap. You're like the lowest guy there so they don't care and if you quit or they fire you it's ok because they'll just hire another kid off the street to do it. And I used to work in telemarketing as a job to pay for Christmas one year. I felt really bad because I was conning people into buying our products and our products were horrible. So we were pretty much just taking their money and not giving them what we said we were going to give them." 

My two worst jobs
Adam Fayhe

"I want to work in IT related stuff. I would change my major now, but I'm too far in that it would cost me so much money to change and stay [at USM] for another three years that I'm not going to do it."

Adam Grant
Freeport High School
2006
ME

 "I was the first person in my family to graduate from high school on time. My mom graduated late and my dad dropped out. I was the first person to go to college and so if I graduated from college I could be like, 'Look. I did this.' It looks good not only for me but for my younger brothers and sisters who don't know what they want to do...but if I get my degree and I'm doing good in life hopefully I can inspire them to be like, 'I want to be like Adam. I want to do that too.'" CALLOUT: "Hopefully I can inspire them." 

Adam Grant
Freeport High School
2006
ME

 "Once you're in college you're on your own basically because in high school you had people hounding you, when to go to class, when to do the right thing. In college you're living in the dorms. You're on your own. If you don't go to class or anything you get kicked out of college and you just spent several thousands of dollars for nothing. You just wasted it. But once you're in college that is where you have to grow up. If you were a kid in high school and you messed around but you skated by that may have suited you in high school but once you're in college you can't do that at all. You've gotta wake up, you've gotta get yourself to class. High school I think prepares you to manage your time well by telling you to be here at this time. In college you're told to be here at this time but no one is going to police you. You've gotta learn time management quick in college and you've go to be able to police yourself and make sure you're doing the right thing. Even if your roommate is a stoner or a drunk or whatever that just sleeps all day, sure that may be fun once in a while but don't let that become your lifestyle like I did. Because then you will do nothing and then you will flunk out of college and you will definitely pay for it, that's for sure."   CALLOUT:  "You've go to be able to police yourself and make sure you're doing the right thing." 

Advice for HS and college
Adam Grant
Freeport High School
2006
ME

"I've struggled with alcohol. That runs in my family, alcohol abuse. I was really good because I didn't drink all throughout high school. And then when I got to college I didn't drink at all until my second semester my freshman year, and then it was like every weekend that's all I did. And then once I got my own apartment it went from like every weekend to everyday. And then there would be days when I wouldn't even go to work because I'd be hungover or something like that. That was another reason I joined the Army, to get my life in order in that sense because I quit all the other stuff that I was doing, but then I started solely drinking. So joining the Army and not being able to smoke, dip, drink, any of that stuff for 4 months and if you do get caught with that you are in serious trouble; you lose your rank, you lose your money, you lose all kinds of stuff. It was definitely an eye-opening experience. Like after 4 months I didn't touch that stuff and when I got home I had a little bit but I was like I don't really need that anymore. I mean once in a while is fine but once you're doing it all the time you've got to get help. If you're not willing to change yourself then you've got to get help."   CALLOUT:  "Then there would be days when I wouldn't even go to work because I'd be hungover." 

Adam Grant
Freeport High School
2006
ME

"My major at USM was psychology when I got accepted though I never wanted to be a psychology major. So after my first year I wanted to switch it to sports management and hopefully continue with that, but that wasn't what I was expecting. That's when I decided to take time off, when nothing was going the way I wanted it to go. So I took some time off and when I go back I'm hopefully changing my major to communications with a focus in media studies."

Adam Grant
Freeport High School
2006
ME

"USM wasn't my first choice. My first choice was to go to Husson College to play football, but I couldn't afford it and USM was cheap. So I went to USM and I've actually really liked it. With a campus in Portland and a campus in Gorham it's really convenient. I lived in Gorham so it was more convenient for me to be in Gorham, but the shuttle bus to Portland helped a lot." 

Aleksandar Radosavljevic
Portland High School
2004
ME

"You only have a certain amount of tries in life before you realize that your chances are up and you’re stuck working some low-paying job to pay off your debt. At least at the high school level my impression was that the world is full of opportunity; if I try hard enough I will make it, but in a very singular fashion. You pick a career when you’re in high school, you work hard, you get there, you start making all this money and you live happily ever after. I think that’s a very unrealistic picture that they instill in kids. I don’t even know gave me that impression, but that was in impression and I’m sure a lot of people share that. The reality is that the real world is like a minefield. It is full of mines that you could step on at any given point in the journey. The lesson I’ve learned is you have to pick yourself and go around, but the other thing is that if you can surround yourself with people who have been through the journey and ask them what lies ahead I think that’s a very valuable resource.”

Aleksandar Radosavljevic
Portland High School
2004
ME

“I’ve been making connections with people. I think networking is the key to getting a job in today’s world. All of the jobs that I’ve landed in were because of my ability to meet people and to make a good connection with them…If I know you and I’m hiring and I have a stack of papers on my table I’m not going to go read through 300 applications. ‘Oh, you know this guy? Ok, I’m going to hire him.’ Boom, I just saved myself three hours of reading…You have to find a way to not just stand out in a crowd, but be efficient. Make yourself so acceptable to companies, not just by your smarts but also by how adaptable you are. I think that’s very important. I try to poke my nose into everything. This small city [Portland] has a lot of opportunities. You have to be almost annoying to a certain point. If you want it bad enough I think people will recognize that. Then again, don’t be too pushy. Definitely go out and meet people.”

Aleksandar Radosavljevic
Portland High School
2004
ME

“I think SMCC is a very good school to take your core requirements in because it’s cheaper, and you’re probably getting the same level of education as you would I think at USM. Maybe the credentials of the professors might not be has high, but I highly recommend to people who don’t know what they want to go for go there and take your psychology, your physics. Every major will basically require of you to take a certain amount of these base classes and then later after two years you have to declare a major and start taking that stuff…I ended up doing two years there and I think it’s a very good place to get hands-on experience. My major was communications and new media. Once I started taking my major courses I was very satisfied because there were a few good faculty members there…SMCC is a school that outside of school, you on your own, really have to push the boundary of what you really want to learn. They’ll teach you, and I think they do a good job, the hands-on stuff, how stuff works. But if you want some more in-depth stuff obviously you have to do that on your own…It is definitely a good starting point because we are living in an age where a college degree is the new high school degree and it will cost a lot of money.”  

Navigating the Real World Outline

I. Voices of people in their 20s   

What I wish that I had been told…

Surprises

Mistakes I have made

Mistakes I have seen

It wasn’t worth the cost

If I had it to do over…

My worst job ever

What I’d change:  about high school, about community college, about college, about the military

Choosing the wrong major

How I could have been better prepared 

What didn’t work for me

Good ideas (do these)

Bad ideas (not these!!)

Military Service – benefits, costs; glad I went, wish I hadn’t; what are you getting yourself into


II. Reviews of Colleges and Programs 

Hear from those for whom it worked and those where it didn’t

Programs that led somewhere and ones that didn’t

Graduations rates, placement rates

Costs and debts: was it worth it?  

Alumni views:  happy and not happy.   

Financing your education (be careful!)


III. Unusual Paths – real stories about people on alternative roads

Unconventional learning experiences

Exploring the world  

Changing the World

Taking time off – stories of people who made the most of time off, and those who went nowhere.


IV. Getting a Job –  solid advice and real experiences getting (and not getting) jobs

Job openings – where are they and how to scout out ones that aren’t advertised

Networking – it really is “who you know” 

Interviews, follow-up, job offers  

 

V. Voices of employers – on getting hired, succeeding on the job, where the opportunities are, career choices

Succeeding and Failing on the Job 

Good Employers/Bad Employers 

Good Jobs and Bad Jobs

Careers – ones that are promising and ones going nowhere, the best and the worst, choosing a career that is a good match for you.  


VI, Living on Your Own

  Work

Money, Credit Cards, Loans – getting out of a hole or avoiding it in the first place, getting smarter about finances, etc. 

Housing – renting, leases, buying, ways to screw up

Vehicles – buying, leasing, maintaining, insuring

Food

Budgeting – Living on $12/hour

People and Relationships

VII. Deciding What to Do  - Post HS Decision Tree

Clarifying your interests, measuring your aptitudes, listing your options, evaluating your options (how much will it cost, how long will it take, how likely will it work out) 


VIII. The Future:  Predictions for 2020  - a variety of perspectives


IX. What Really Matters  a variety of Maine voices

 

Industries that are promising

Health care

Professional services

Promising Trades 

Leisure and Hospitality

Biotech

High Tech

Research

Insurance/Financial Services

Internet

Communications

Forest Products

Energy

Small Business

Entrepreneurs 

 

Featured employers 

Fast growing

Likely to do significant hiring itself or as an industry

Entrepreneurs

Small business owners and managers

 


X. Other elements:

Top ten lists

Cartoon contest

Cartoon sequence – with various ways of screwing up

Flip book animation  (in the corners)

Choose your own ending – story

Resume Genius – fake (comical) resume help

My worst job

Maine’s best careers requiring 2-years or less of post-high school training

Maine’s best and worst majors 

Contests

Polls


XI. Sponsors (Maine based businesses and organizations)

 

Facebook Page

Find us on Facebook! 

Printed Edition PDF

The printed edition was delivered to all Maine high school students at the end of April.


Check it out here.

(The links are clickable.)

 

Our next printed edition will be out for the fall semester.

Tell your stories

Tell your stories and help current high school students:

 1. If you are from Maine and in your 20s.

 2. If you work with Maine people in their 20s. 

  Post your own stories
  In video          In text

 Or interview interesting people for us:

  Post interviews                   
  In video          In text

Features

See video

Jay Harper is the Freeport High School JMG Specialist. For months his students have been interviewing young professionals in career fields that interest them about their experiences since high school. Hear Jay talk about how the interview project is working in his classroom. 

See video

It's pretty easy to interview someone for theDailyMistake, but Seth found five ways to screw it up before he got it right.  

Our Sponsors

Meet employees of some of our sponsors: